How to Stop Your Narcissist Partner or Spouse from Emotionally Murdering You and Your Children
This will save you when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, married to a narcissist or even in love with a narcissist who’s making you lose your mind
These are lifesaving lessons I learned growing up with 3 narcissists in my family, knowing narcissists for 33 years, being in 2 relationships from hell, helping my 14,031 customers and talking with 93 clients over the past 11 years about narcissists that will save you from the narcissist ruining your life and emotionally killing you
Hi, I’m Scott.
And I might be the only person who’s ever said the narcissist is emotionally murdering you.
Yet I’m sure you know exactly how it feels.
So I need to say something right now:
You don’t have a relationship.
You have a prison.
You’re in relationship hell.
And the narcissist says if you just loved them enough.
If you just tried harder.
If you just sacrificed more for them.
If you were a better person.
Everything would be okay.
According to them, the problem is you.
Now let me explain the real problem:
“Love” isn’t love to them, it’s control
The pain they’re causing you is the point.
That’s their goal.
To them, love isn’t love.
It’s the ultimate form of control.
They don’t feel love like you do.
Where you see love as giving yourself to them.
And sharing your life with them.
They see it as the opposite.
They see love as a way to take everything from you.
Which is what they’re doing.
So there’s something you have to stop doing now:
You have to stop thinking it’s you.
And stop blaming yourself for what they do.
And stop believing there’s something you can do to change them.
You really can’t.
They might change temporarily to fool you.
But that’s all their doing: fooling you long enough so you believe them again.
It’s a very abusive game, and they love playing it.
They’re in a relationship with you because they need a relationship with you.
Their relationship with you is actually about controlling you.
It makes them feel powerful, and that’s why they’re with you.
What I know and how it will help you
So, I’m Scott.
I was born into a family with 3 narcissists.
And I had no idea since it was all I knew.
But after 15 years of hell I started to figure out how narcissists really worked.
And how to survive them.
Then I started writing about it.
And I was surprised to find there were thousands of people who knew narcissists too.
So my following started growing pretty quickly.
Then one day I asked my 41,000 readers what they wanted to know most about narcissists.
And thousands of my customers started telling me their stories.
Which were eye-opening but also scary.
Then I asked my clients the same thing.
“What do you need to know most about narcissists?”
These were people who had narcissistic parents.
Narcissistic children.
Or were trapped in relationships or marriages with a narcissist.
Sometimes for decades or even longer than I’ve been alive.
And I’m grateful for all their stories.
Because they taught me:
You only have 3 choices
I know the narcissist puts a million and one fears in your head.
And it can be extremely emotionally overwhelming.
But I need you to forget those fears for a second.
And listen to me.
Because only 3 things are going to happen.
1. You stay and survive with them
2. You escape them
3. They leave you
Now depending on your situation.
Some of these may appeal to you.
Or none of them sound good.
But they are reality.
You can stay with the narcissist.
You can leave.
Or they can leave you.
If you choose to stay, I can make your life easier.
I can’t fix them, because nobody can.
But I can help change how they see you.
So they’re nicer to you and attack you less.
If you leave them, you have to do it in a specific way.
So you stay safe.
Leaving them makes them enraged, so you have to do it right to protect yourself.
And if they leave you, I can show you how to make the pain bearable.
I can also show you what to say and do so they don’t leave you, if that’s what you want.
Because:
As I was talking to hundreds of my clients and customers, I was taking notes…
I would listen to their problems carefully, tell them what to do, and see how it went.
It wasn’t always perfect. Sometimes I screwed up.
But when I got it right. When I saved their heart from narcissistic extermination.
I wrote it down. And those notes got bigger and bigger.
Until people started asking me for them.
Then I realized I’d put everything I knew about narcissist relationships.
And everything I learned from my 14,000+ customers and clients.
Into a fat notebook.
A notebook with everything that protects you from narcissists.
I didn’t know what to call it, so let’s just keep it simple and use the name:
How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
Now I have to tell you: this book won’t turn your narcissist into an angel.
Nothing can do that.
It will still be hard. They’ll still be mean.
I’m sorry I can’t fix everything for you. I would if I could.
However:
This book will save your life if:
1. You’re married to a narcissist or in a relationship with a narcissist and trying to survive (and save your children)
2. You’re trying to leave or divorce a narcissist safely (and keep your children safe)
3. You’re trying to keep them from leaving and discarding you
4. You’re trying to recover after they’ve ripped your heart out and stomped on it and destroyed your life
Here’s some of what’s in it:
- Breaking free from the narcissist’s abusive cycle where they make you feel loved and needed in one moment and then like you’re worse than trash in the next
- My program for saving you and your children’s lives from the narcissist’s abuse and terror
- How to help children who’ve been traumatized by a narcissist parent, caretaker or family member
- How to escape this narcissist safely based on what they do to control you
- Things you can do right now to protect yourself and your children from their emotional murder
- Leaving and divorcing a narcissist without losing your mind and keeping your family safe
- How to stay with them when you need to. This makes life much more bearable…
- Exactly what to say to them when they blow up and try to tear you to pieces…
- A few ways to stop them from scaring the life out of you by scaring the life out of them instead
- The 4 ways they control you and how to counter each one without them even knowing
- The Narcissist’s Language. The words they use and decoding what they really mean
- Accusations, misdirection and gaslighting go deeper than you think. This shows you when they’re lying to you and how to see right through it fast
- Being brokenhearted and rejected by a nice person sucks… but being discarded by a narcissist, brokenhearted and then still have them abusing you endlessly is absolute hell. Here’s how to get their brutal grip off your heart…
- How to turn their attacks back at them instantly
- How to know they’re a narcissist for sure. This proves it…
- Why how they make you feel is the key to knowing how they feel
- What they’re most afraid of and how to use it against them when you must to scare them away from you
- Healing the unbelievable heartache and hopelessness they give you
- Unhooking from the indescribable pain they cause that’s eating away at you
- What to do after they’ve just ripped your heart out and stomped on it in front of you
- How to know when they’re at their most dangerous and want to hurt you and your family or worse… and what to do about it to keep yourself safe
- What to tell your family when the narcissist has turned them against you
- What to tell your children that can save their life so they’re not permanently scarred by the narcissist forever
- How to save the people the narcissist has turned on you
- 7 techniques to handle a narcissist
- Piece of advice that saved my life
- What a narcissist accidentally told me about what they do and how to stop it
- A personalized narcissist recovery process for you
- How children are damaged by a narcissist and how to help them recover
- It’s not unusual to experience terrible separation anxiety when you’re away from the narcissist or after they discard you. Here’s why that’s a good thing and how to stop the pain
- What you have to know about life after a narcissist. There are 3 things that creep up and surprise you, and this is what you have to do about them…
- Emergency plan for when they’re absolutely ruining you and destroying your life
- What triggers them to leave you or stay with you, depending on what you need
- How to know if you’re actually in a relationship with a narcissist for sure using these 3 crucial signs…
- What your relationship with them really is and how it really works
- How they actually see you. Nothing’s the same after this…
- Why they’re guilting you out and pulling you deeper into committing to them and what you have to do about it
- Their 2 greatest weapons they’re using on you right now, and how to disarm them forever, and even turn them against the narcissist…
- What they say is going to happen and what’s actually going to happen
- The big choice you have to make… you’re making it already, you just don’t know it yet
- What they want to do to you and are planning to do to you next. It’s not pretty…
- The dark future they have planned for you…
- Do they love you and can they ever really love you? Here’s the final answer
- Can they actually change or are they just fooling you?
- What they actually feel and believe deep down that they don’t tell you
- Why they always blame you and always will
- Why the more they insult and attack you, and the worse they make you feel, the better you should feel because it means this…
- My Repel Narcissists Shield. This disarms them and will make their attacks bounce off of you and back at them
- What to do when you’re missing them uncontrollably even when (especially when) you know they’re so bad for you
- Why they’re actually with you and what they actually think of you. This will sting but you need to hear it
- The best things to say and do around a narcissist
- My Narcissist Lie Detector. They’ll really wish you didn’t know this
- How to know if they’re cheating on you right now or ever would…
- Signs they’re cheating on you right now…
"Dear Scott, I think it's us that need to thank you! When I first purchased your book I was trying to (for four years) figure out what was wrong with the narcissist in my life. I got away from him when I read your book. Thanks again. You've sent two emails since then and after I received each of them this man tried to come back in my life. I was glad I had your emails to remind me of what I was about to let myself in for. You've done a great thing by writing this book."
-Vicki Schramm
"Just wanted to let you know that you're doing a great job. The last narcissist I dated took me 3 months to recognize what he was. Shortly after I met another one who I recognized immediately. I'm just very grateful that I can recognize it. Your book helped a lot. Thank you and good luck."
-Trudy Evans
Get Digital Version Get Physical VersionNow I have to bring up something I really don’t want to talk about…
Since this page is about your relationship with a narcissist.
I’ve had 2 relationships that gave me way too much painful experience.
And I wrote all of it into How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
I didn’t just learn this stuff through my clients.
I lived it too, because I had to.
So in addition to growing up with narcissists for family.
Helping about 14,031 people with narcissists since starting this business.
And hearing all their stories.
I’ve had 2 relationships that will show you how to read the narcissist’s mind.
And show you what to expect.
It won’t be fun, but it will take you inside their head.
So you know what they actually think of you and what they’re going to do.
Now I have to admit:
I don’t know what to charge for this
Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist was hard for me to write.
Because thinking about this stuff is painful.
It really hurt.
And felt like I was bleeding out onto the page as I wrote it.
That’s the way it is when you know or love a narcissist.
I’m sure you’ve felt like you were dying having to deal with them.
So it’s taken a lot out of me, emotionally and financially.
This page costs money to keep up.
And writing this book and offering it to you costs money.
So I’m asking $97 for the digital version of How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
And $147 for the physical version I’ll ship to you myself (shipping is free in the US).
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And if you can see this.
It means you can get How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist for a discount because you’re on my email list.
You can get the digital version for $27.
Or the physical version for $47 (with free shipping in the US).
This is a special only for people on my email list, so you may not see it again.
And that’s only what you invest if you feel it saves you from the narcissist.
Since:
Surviving Your Relationship with a Narcissist must save your life or you must get a full refund and keep it free
Some people can’t believe my guarantee.
And I don’t blame them because it is unbelievable:
How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist must work for you or you’ll keep it free.
I’m not joking.
I have an idea how much pain you’re going through.
And how scared and uncertain you feel.
So this must help you.
Or you must ask for your money back and keep it free.
What they’re going to do to you – please remember this and never forget it
They’re going to keep breaking your heart into a million pieces.
Until you’re lying on the floor screaming in agony.
And begging for mercy.
Then they’ll put you back together.
Building you back up piece by piece.
To give you hope.
So they can shatter you into pieces again.
And this will happen again and again until you know what’s in this book.
I’m sorry they’re like this.
They just are, and they’re not going to stop.
You have to talk to them in a specific way.
And do what I show you in this book.
There might be something else out there that can help you.
But it won’t be like this.
There are a lot of other resources and authors I like.
But they still don’t know what I know.
They can’t save your heart and your family from the narcissist’s destruction like How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
Because for some reason, nobody has written about narcissist relationships like I have.
So they can’t show you what I had to learn to survive these past 30 years.
And How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist must work for you, or you keep it free.
Click below right now and checkout with your credit card, bank card, PayPal or your favorite digital wallet.
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Get Digital Version - $27 Get Physical Version - $47Thank you for reading and I can’t wait to hear how this helps you,
Scott Bassett
Founder of Understanding Narcissists
PS I’m sending you my Narcissist Mind Reader as a free bonus gift when you get How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist
So when you’re with a narcissist.
You have no idea what they’re thinking.
They never tell you what’s in their head because that would help you fight them.
So they hide their real thoughts.
But I have something that lets you read their mind without them knowing.
It’s called Narcissist Mind Reader.
And it shows you:
- The hidden clues that tell you exactly what they’re thinking right now, without even looking at them
- How to scare them just by looking at them
- What they’re doing and going to do that they’re hiding from you now
- Facial cues they can’t hide that let you read their mind
- How to tell when they’re lying to you
- How to “see” what they’re planning to do to you before they do it
When you use Narcissist Mind Reader, you will know their deepest thoughts they try to hide from you within about 5 minutes.
It works because they try to hide their true thoughts in a way that actually reveals them when you know their hiding pattern.
It all boils down to one simple ingredient I’ll show you.
This technique has been priceless to me.
And took me over 20 years to learn.
However, I want you to have Narcissist Mind Reader free when you get How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
And you can only get it with How to Survive Your Relationship with a Narcissist.
So click below right now.
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